The decision to deal with the trauma of rape instead of letting the shame and the agony scar you for life.
The decision to love again.
The decision to get rid of people who don't really give a fuck about you from your life.
The decision to start dreaming again.
The decision to make your dreams come true, one small step at a time.
And lastly, the decision to not give up your search until you have found your knight in shining armor.
(In my case, however, the knight found me and not the other way round!)